If I had a nickel for every time someone said that it "wasn't the appropriate forum" to discuss racial issues when they crop up I'd buy a house in Laurel Canyon.
The time is always when it happens. The place is always where it happens.
Discomfort is the process.
如果每次有人说这“不是讨论种族问题的合适论坛”，我都有一分钱，我会在劳雷尔峡谷买一栋房子。
时间总是发生的时候。事情总是发生的地方。
不适是一个过程。